Most women notice a decrease in libido after baby because they’re tired and overwhelmed. The key to boosting your desire is through feeling connected to your husband or partner. I say, “date your mate”. Your date need not cost a dime…you can enjoy each other’s company at home. Cuddle and watch a movie, share a dessert, and keep the focus on the two of you rather than your kids. Notice how when you’re feeling connected your desire will increase. Make “we” time a priority- the more connected you feel emotionally and physically the better you’ll both feel!