For many moms sex after baby seems like one more thing to do. Moms are exhausted, over stimulated with touch from their baby, and the last thing on their mind is sex. On the other hand, Dad is feeling rejected and wanting to feel connected through sex. Knowing that he wants to connect with you, make an effort to spend some alone time together. Get a sitter, or set some time for just the two of you at home. Keep the talk on the two of you rather than on your baby. The more connected you feel emotionally the more you’ll desire him. Even if you don’t want to have sex, spend time kissing and touching each other, and take care of his needs through touch or oral sex. The more connected you are the better it will be for your relationship and the security needs of your children.
